Date Do's and Don'ts
Date Do's and Don'ts
dates are very nerve racking and often leave us shy,
silent and blowing are chances of getting a second one
because we weren`t prepared for this one. Here are some
pointers to help you get the best start and make a good
Be on time - The last thing you want to do is make
a bad impression on your date. If you are late they
will think that you don`t care and worse still might
not hang around for you to turn up.
Make your partner feel comfortable - We all feel
like a bag of nerves on our first date with someone;
so by making them feel comfortable you will also be
able to relax and enjoy yourself.
Be an interesting date - The worse thing you can
do is turn up for a date with someone then sit there
all night and talk or worse still talking and not making
sense or having nothing good to talk about.
Laugh at their jokes - Even if you have heard the
joke 100 times or more (or it just isn`t funny at all)
laughing a long with them will make them feel you are
interested in them.
Keep the conversation alive - That dreaded silence
when no one knows what to say can seem to last for a
life time and will make both of you think the other
is boring. Jot down a few questions you would like to
ask. Practicing for the date can make all the difference
and once you have started the rest will just follow.
Take an interest in them - Listen to them when they
are talking. Be interested in what they have to say
and show how interested you are by asking them questions
about what they like to do etc..
Take them somewhere unique - First dates don`t just
have to be about going to the cinema or to a restaurant
for a nice meal. You will make a longer, lasting impression
if you are imaginative with your date.
Be confident - Confidence says a lot about a person.
Being more confident will help you get through that
first date with ease.
Be yourself -
You won`t fool anyone by pretending to be someone you
are not. Also if you are wanting to continue seeing
them, the real you will come out eventually and they
may no longer be interested.
Most importantly - STAY SAFE.
Be late - First impressions count and if you are
late this will make them think of you as lazy, having
lack of responsibilities, etc..
Talk about yourself all night - There is nothing
worse then a person that loves to talk about themselves
all the time. How vain can you get?
Talk about past relationships all night - May be
that`s how you lost the last one. Nobody wants to hear
you drone on about your ex and what they did or didn`t
do. Concentrate on this one and see if you can get to
the second date.
Eat with your mouth open - Just the thought of it
makes my stomach turn so save your date the horrible
Ask too many personal questions - This is your first
date and they won`t want to reveal to much about themselves
just yet. If you like each other and want to continue
with the relationship then there will be plenty of time
to ask questions.
Try to be something you are not - You will only
attract the way that you act and if that is not the
real you, when the real you does come out the other
person will not be interested. Find someone that will
want you for you not for what you are pretending to
Forget to thank them for the date - Not only is
this good manners but this is where you will get your
chance to end it if you are not interested or for you
to ask them out on another date if you would like to
see them again.
Propose marriage or kids - Unless you don`t want
to see them again.
Pursue sex after your partner has said no
Don`t get drunk - You don`t want to spend half the
night in the toilet vomiting and your date won`t think
much of you. You can also put yourself at risk of unwanted
advances and will not be in the right frame of mind
or body to do anything about it.
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